Anything can be an opportunity to learn and become more whole and happy.  But the pain and shattering experience of an affair makes it one of the hardest times to heal and discover that potential.  Often, the betrayal of infidelity is an expression of an earlier, longstanding and unconscious betrayal of the self.  In this powerful, profound, and also humorous TED talk, Esther Perel invites you into the ultimate possibility during these challenging times: to recover a forgotten part of oneself and reclaim one’s life.